Bad Boy or Alpha Male?
Do nice guys really finish last when it comes to women? The idea that heterosexual women may say that they want nice characteristics in a guy when what they really want is a bad boy is one of the most...
View ArticleMan Alive! My Message to You in the Time of Harvey Weinstein (Charlie Rose,...
— I feel strongly that you deserve to be seen and known as the unique and great man you are. While many men we have respected and admired are being relieved of their positions and publicly rejected,...
View ArticleIt’s Okay to Want Sex
For Harris O’Malley, being willing to admit that he was interested in sex – and understanding that yes, women liked it as much as he did – made his relationships more authentic, and sex more...
View ArticleThe ‘Logical Fallacy’ Of Self Help Books and Programs (It’s a Trap)
Self-help is a word that gets thrown around a lot in modern society. But what is it, and why do people obsess over it so much?Perhaps you ARE one of the people who is on a never-ending quest for...
View ArticleWhy Pick-Up Artists Should be Sued for False Advertising
Embed from Getty Images If you’re hot for a guy who’s an asshole, it’s not because he’s an asshole, it’s probably because he’s hot. This is precisely why pick-up artists aren’t just evil and gross,...
View ArticleIn Which Scenario Should You Buy Her That Drink?
Embed from Getty ImagesWhen everything lines up just right—you’ll know who you’ll be getting to know over drinks.—There have been a number of discussions around whether or not a man should buy a woman...
View ArticleIs the Adult Male Virgin Society’s Last Taboo?
Embed from Getty ImagesCan we talk about how man’s worth is not really related to his ability to score sexual partners?—Will: “I have never put my penis in a lady”Alison: “That’s alright, you’re a...
View ArticleGuys Like Julien Blanc Aren’t Pick-Up Artists
“Let’s get something straight: You’re not a quality man. You don’t have game. You aren’t a catch. You have simply learned how to lie effectively enough to manipulate a woman into bed.”By Charles J....
View ArticleSuck at Dating? You Can Get Better at it if You Try
Dr. NerdLove understands how intimidating dating can be when you have very little experience, but there are ways you can prepare and feel confident.–One of the common complaints I hear from readers is...
View ArticleCan You Be An Ethical Pickup Artist?
Yes, meeting women can be hard. But the coerciveness of the nature of pick up artist is all wrong._____Editor’s note: Every Sunday we run one of Harris O’Malley’s fantastic Dr. NerdLove columns here...
View ArticleSeduction Games: Inside the Mind of a Pickup Artist
Reseacher Anders Wallace shares about the whats and whys of the Pickup Artist culture. “There are two kinds of guys out there—there’s the calibrator, and there’s the escalator. I’m a calibrator, and I...
View ArticleA Master of the Game Strikes Out in Denmark
Thomas Pluck reflects on how economic security affects the dating game.—Maybe it was my early exposure to the Leisure Suit Larry games, but I’ve always found Pick-Up Artists to be kind of pathetic. I...
View ArticleDating 201: The Right Mindset For Success
So you’ve gotten better at dating, but you can’t seem to meet “the one”… Maybe you’re focusing too much on improving the outward details of your dating, and not enough on the inward ones.I was having...
View ArticleI’m Sorry, But I Love You
Andy Bodle goes for a gorgeous girl with low self esteem, and finds himself mysteriously outclassed by everyone.“There are two tragedies in life. One is to lose your heart’s desire; the other is to...
View ArticleUnderstanding Men
Harris O’Malley insists that our understanding of masculinity today is a bubbling stew of misunderstandings, ignorance and anxieties. There are few cliches that I hate more than the “Men are From...
View ArticleThe Gentlemen of Paradise
Carl Pettit finds the mating rituals of the male of the species, avian and human, comically and tragically similar.The sexual life of birds fascinates me. Last year, while resting near a pond, I...
View ArticleDating Short Cuts and Magic Bullets
Doctor NerdLove challenges the myth of quick-fix dating and relationship advice.I get a lot of marketing emails from various dating gurus.Call it a professional hazard; sometimes it’s because I get...
View ArticleBoys in the Friend Zone
How can we mentor boys in dating and relationship skills?I’m a man hoping the peculiarly vicious gender battles happening in America these days can come to some sensible resolution. This has moved me,...
View ArticleUnderstanding Women
Doctor NerdLove examines the notion that women are inherently so different from men that understanding them requires some sort of guidebook.One of the attitudes I try to combat here at Paging Dr....
View ArticleThe PUA Lifestyle: London Real Meets Art of Charm Podcaster Jordan Harbinger:...
A pickup artist on not waiting for what you really want.London Real is a weekly talk show dedicated to challenging the status quo, exploring the human experience and exchanging ideas and perspectives...
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